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Q:My boyfriend always comes kinda quick by hand oral or vaginal sex.When he comes he refuses to satisfy me because he thinks theres to much of a risk of me getting pregnant(im on the pill).He wont even if he washes his hands or uses a condom, advice?
If you’ve already had vaginal sex (or oral or manual sex) and he’s ejaculated, and you’re on the pill and he used a condom, then there’s no way that either manually or orally stimulating you afterward poses more of a risk for pregnancy. A pregnancy can only occur if sperm are deposited inside of the vagina or onto the vaginal opening, sperm can’t live on hands, and washing his hands would kill any sperm. Oral sex does not cause a pregnancy. Not to mention, condoms are 98-percent effective at preventing pregnancy and highly effective at preventing the transmission of STDs, and the pill is 99-percent effective with perfect use at preventing pregnancy. Perhaps he doesn’t realize this, and he just needs some reassurance.
If he’s still concerned about pregnancy, maybe you can change up the order of your sexual behaviors. To put him at ease, you might have him perform oral or manual sex on you first to have an orgasm and then you two can proceed with your sexual behaviors that will bring him to orgasm. this way you both can orgasm and he doesn’t have to worry about transferring his ejaculate onto the vulva or into the vagina.
If he’s still reluctant to make sure you have an orgasm, that might be sign that something else is going on. And you might want to talk about why he’s reluctant to engage in sexual behaviors that would be pleasurable to you.
I hope this helps.
what’s that show you won’t stfu about? ‘orange is black’?
me: it’s called
Patton Oswalt on binge watching the first six episodes of Orphan Black, then having to wait week to week for new episodes. (Brutal.)
So I went on a date today and we went to a nice restaurant before going to the movies and I ordered the “iced grape popsicles” for dessert because I love grape Popsicles so why not right?…..so the waiter brings out the “iced grape popsicles” aND THEY WERE LITERALLY 3 FROZEN GRAPES ON STICKS…..I HAVE NEVER BEEN MORE OFFENDED IN MY LIFE…SINCE WHEN ARE 3 FUCKING FROZEN GRAPES IN A FUCKING VASE AN ACCEPTABLE SINGLE DESSERT ORDER..ITS NOT EVEN FROZEN GRAPE JUICE OR SOMETHING ITS LITERALLY JUST A 0.02$ GRAPE THAT WAS PUT ON A STICK THEN FROZEN…LIKE SOMEONE ACTUALLY WROTE THIS DOWN ON THE MENU THINKING “OH YEAH PEOPLE FUCKING LOVE COLD GRAPES” AND SOME OTHER ASSHAT SAID “BRAH. HEAR ME OUT, HOW ABOUT WE PUT THEM ON STICKS AND SERVE THEM IN A VASE WITH NOTHING ELSE” LIKE YOU COULDNT EVEN SERVE IT WITH A FUCKING SECOND FRUIT OR EVEN FUCKING LEAVES OR WHATEVER… IM SO MAD. FUCKING FROZEN GRAPES ON A STICK.
AND THEY WERENT EVEN SEEDLESS GRAPES…..
THAT LAST COMMENT IS WHAT DID IT. HOW DARE THEY